ENM therapy supports individuals and couples in ethical non-monogamy relationships. It focuses on communication, boundaries, and building healthy connections.

Can intimacy counseling be done online?

Yes, intimacy counseling can be done online through secure video sessions. This makes it accessible, private, and flexible for couples and individuals worldwide.

How does couples counseling improve communication?

Couples counseling helps partners learn active listening, conflict resolution, and strategies to rebuild trust and intimacy in their relationship.

FAQ

What is IntimaBalance?

IntimaBalance is an online counselling practice specialising in couples therapy, intimacy issues, and sex therapy. Sessions are offered virtually, making support accessible no matter where you are.

Who do you work with?

I work with individuals and couples who want to strengthen their relationships, improve intimacy, or navigate challenges such as desire differences, communication breakdowns, or sexual health concerns. I also provide support for clients in ethical non-monogamy (ENM) relationships.

How are sessions conducted?

All sessions are conducted online via secure video platforms, giving you flexibility and privacy. You can join from your home, office, or any private space with internet access.

Do you offer services worldwide?

Yes. Since my practice is virtual, I work with clients from different countries. Please note that sessions are conducted in English and Afrikaans.

FAQ

What types of issues can you help with?

Some areas I specialise in include:

Communication difficulties between partners
Differences in libido or desire mismatch
Intimacy concerns and emotional disconnect
Sexual dysfunction (in collaboration with medical professionals if needed)
Navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) relationships
Support for individuals dealing with self-esteem, anxiety, or relationship stress

How long are sessions?

Individual counselling: 55 minutes
Couples counselling: 80 minutes

How do I book a session?

You can book directly through the “Book an Appointment” button on the website. Once scheduled, you’ll receive a confirmation email with a link and an intake form to complete before the session.

Are sessions confidential?

Yes. Everything shared in sessions remains confidential, within the ethical and legal guidelines of professional practice. Your privacy and trust are my priority.

FAQ

Do you prescribe medication?

No. As a counsellor, I do not prescribe medication. If needed, I work collaboratively with medical professionals, such as urologists or general practitioners, to support your holistic care.

Do you work with men’s health concerns?

Yes. Through collaboration with the Men’s Health Institute, I provide counselling support for issues such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, and the relational/psychological impact of these conditions

How much does it cost?

Session fees are listed on the Services page. All pricing is per session (no packages required).

What qualifications do you have?

I hold a B.Ed (Senior Phase & FET) with majors in Psychology, English, and Afrikaans, and a BA Honours in Psychology (NQF Level 8).

I am an Accredited Member of ACCPH (AMACCPH) and have completed specialised certifications in:

Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy (Tammy Nelson, PhD)
Exploring the Therapeutic Comfort Zone in Sex Therapy
The PLISSIT-R Model in Sex Therapy
Counseling children & adolescents
Dementia & caregiver support
Traumatic Incident Reduction (TIR)