Intimacy & Sexual Concerns Counselling
Intimacy can become difficult for many reasons. Sometimes there is distance, pressure, shame, uncertainty, or a growing sense of disconnection. Sometimes couples care deeply for one another but struggle to talk honestly about closeness, desire, boundaries, or what has changed. This counselling offers a respectful, confidential space to slow things down, understand what is happening more clearly, and begin finding a steadier way forward together or as an individual.
Who this is for
This work is for adults and couples dealing with desire differences, loss of closeness, shame or discomfort around intimacy, performance anxiety, intimacy after body changes or life transitions, difficulty discussing sex and needs, or uncertainty about boundaries and expectations. It may also be helpful where intimacy has become tense, avoidant, pressured, or emotionally loaded in ways that are difficult to explain or repair alone.
What counselling can help with
Counselling can help create clearer communication around intimacy, reduce pressure, explore the emotional meaning of closeness and desire, understand relational patterns, and support reconnection at a pace that feels respectful and workable. It can also help individuals and couples have more honest conversations about needs, boundaries, expectations, and the kind of connection they are trying to build or rebuild.
How I approach this work
My approach is warm, steady, and non-judgemental. I aim to create a space where people can talk more openly about intimacy without feeling rushed, pathologised, or shamed. The work focuses on reflection, communication, emotional safety, and a better understanding of what may be happening beneath the surface, rather than quick fixes or pressure to perform.
What counselling cannot do
Counselling does not replace medical assessment where hormonal issues, pain, erectile difficulties, medication effects, pelvic symptoms, or other physical contributors may be involved. Where those factors may be relevant, medical review may also be recommended. Counselling can support the emotional and relational side of these concerns, but it is not sex medicine or diagnosis-led treatment.
A note on body changes and life transitions
Intimacy can shift after stress, burnout, parenthood, ageing, illness, hormonal change, body-image struggles, or major relationship transitions. These changes can bring grief, confusion, pressure, or self-doubt. Counselling can offer space to understand those changes more gently and respond to them with more honesty, steadiness, and care.
Single Session Option
For some individuals, it feels easier to begin with a single session rather than committing to a structured package straight away. This option offers a respectful, confidential space to talk about intimacy concerns, sexual communication difficulties, emotional disconnection, or uncertainty around closeness and desire.
A single session can help bring early clarity to what feels sensitive, confusing, or difficult to name, while also helping you consider what kind of support may be most helpful from there.
What is included
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1 online intimacy counselling session
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space to explore the current concern with care and discretion
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thoughtful reflection and professional guidance during the session
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consideration of suitable next steps, where appropriate
Price
Session fee: €60
This may be a good fit for those who would prefer to begin with one session before deciding whether a more structured support option would be helpful.
A structured support option
Some people find it helpful to begin intimacy-focused work with a more structured process rather than taking it one session at a time. For this reason, an intimacy support package is also available. It is designed for individuals or couples who would benefit from a steadier starting point when working through desire differences, sexual communication difficulties, pressure around intimacy, or emotional and physical disconnection.
Intimacy & Sexual Concerns Packages
The Intimacy Reconnection Package includes 3 online sessions and offers a more supported beginning for those wanting to understand intimacy patterns more clearly, talk more openly about needs and boundaries, and begin rebuilding closeness in a way that feels respectful, calm, and manageable.
What is included
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3 online counselling sessions
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written feedback after each session
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brief check-ins between sessions where appropriate
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supportive intimacy and communication guides
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Price​​
Package fee: €170 for individuals
This may be a good fit for those who already know they would benefit from support across several sessions rather than starting with a single appointment.